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Domestic Violence Books

Relationships

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    The authors offer solid guidance for making safe choices in relationships, from friendships to romance. They help identify the nurturing people we all need in our lives, as well as ones we need to learn to avoid. Safe People will help you to recognize 20 traits of relationally untrustworthy people. Discover what makes some people relationally safe, and how to avoid unhealthy entanglements.

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    If you were involved with a manipulator/abuser, or you want to prevent it from happening, this book is for you. Setting clear boundaries is vital for anyone who wants to become more confident, improve relationships, and prevent victimization. This concise book is filled with practical wisdom and useful tips. It will walk you through the process of creating boundaries from start to finish.

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    Learn the manipulator's game, so they can't play it with you. Identifying covert manipulation is tricky. This short but powerful 33-page book will teach you how to identify the 30 tactics manipulators use to get what they want. You'll also learn to spot the warning signs within yourself that expose covert manipulation is taking place, even if you can't identify the specific tactics being used.

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    Dating After Trauma

    by Emily Avagliano

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    The author discusses the common obstacles abuse victims have when trying to find love. Her story is based on her own personal struggle to overcome past trauma and find her soulmate. Through this insight, she provides a methodology for dating that builds trust and intimacy in a safe/healthy way, and helps you let go of your fear and date in a way that love becomes possible.

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    Through an explanation of basic Buddhist beliefs, the author instructs readers on how to cope with the difficulty of the past and present. Her text is filled with positive affirmations while she discusses communication, reversing habitual patterns, using pain to cultivate courage, and more.

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    The author draws on years of counseling experience to lead readers through relationship ambivalence. A careful line of 36 questions and self-analysis techniques designed to get to the heart of relationship and marriage problems. Straightforward advice designed for newer and older relationships. Presents a plethora of information and experience in a clear, concise manner.

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    Relationship Safety Skills Handbook

    by Irene van der Zande

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    This handbook is for victims and potential victims of relationship violence, and support people in their lives. Concepts and skills include: assessing what is safe and unsafe behavior in a relationship; setting effective boundaries; controlling emotional triggers; taking the power out of verbal attack; leaving dangerous situations; verbal self-defense tactics; and getting help effectively.

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    An in-depth look at the realities of relationships and sexual intimacy. While most people simply make their move with a partner, Mike Domitrz reveals why asking first makes all the difference. Domitrz’s candid advice, real-life scenarios, and helpful strategies will revolutionize your approach to relationships while adding romance and building respect for all partners.

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    Written by a financial advisor who also was abused, Breaking Bonds is a survival handbook that gives you the knowledge and tools you need to stand up to threats and intimidation, reduce your stress, and make better strategic decisions during your divorce. This comprehensive guide offers essential information you need to protect your family and your assets, obtain a successful outcome in your di...

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