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Valentine’s Day, shmalentine’s day. After leaving an abuser, that’s probably what you’re thinking—or something a little less G-rated—about February 14. The near-hourly deliveries of roses to coworkers and the onslaught of professions of love on Facebook might be a trigger or leave you feeling lonely, but the day doesn’t have to be a downer. In fact, it’s the perfect day to celebrate how much you love the most important person in your life: You.
Sound cheesy? Hear us out. We’re not suggesting you go as far as marrying yourself like one Australian woman did in 2018. All we’re saying is to dedicate some time to praising you for being you. It can have profound effects on your outlook and life. But don’t just limit it to one day a year. You should celebrate yourself a bit each day. Make it your Valentine’s Day resolution (we’re pretty sure that’s a thing) for these reasons:
Your support gives hope and help to victims of domestic violence every day.
Celebrating yourself doesn’t have to involve throwing a party of one every day (although it can!). Here are some ideas for how to honor No. 1:
Wondering how you should spend the rest of your time on Feb. 14? Check out our Survivor’s Guide to Valentine’s Day.
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